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Spiritual Loneliness

  • Writer: Debbie McDougall
    Debbie McDougall
  • Dec 1, 2021
  • 7 min read

This can be experienced in two major ways. That of feeling of being disconnected from the Universal or Creator/God Consciousness, and also feeling alone in this world of illusion, as many seekers do at times. The latter can come about because we simply no longer can find 'like minded' friends, colleagues, or even family as we turn to the spiritual path. The former is logically, of course, impossible for all is connected and held within our Creator. However, there are times when we simply don't or can't feel it, no matter what we do to try and remedy it. There may be many contributing factors involved of course, which we must also explore in order to heal them.


For me the times I feel disconnected from Creator are the most painful, evoking many unhelpful emotions as my mind plays its ego games of self worth or being 'good' enough to win the gold star of amazing connection! It is this 'solitary confinement' that I ask about when it does happen.


Q: I feel disconnected from Love, from the Universe and from Creator today.


A: You are trying too hard, acquiesce. Sit merely in stillness let connection and questions formulate themselves today. Glory simply at the nature and breathe in the sweet air of Earth. Relax into this day in perfect Trust that all is taken care of (already) and that you merely have a part to play. You may play it as you are now, in contracted frustration and self judgement. Or you may soften and simply relax your tight grasp on trying to be a higher achiever of Truth, for tomorrow is another day for you.


Let Love open you. See it in all things you do and experience. Look closely and you will recognise its existence in all things and it will soften you further and this softening will open you, aligning you more with the Truth you seek to know, and that you ARE.


Simply offer Love to all your fears, your disapproval of your belief in your lack of progress. For every second in time, your progression through time with Love on your mind is progression in spiritual achievement. With Love in mind, no day, no hour, no second is 'wasted', quite the opposite in fact.


Do not allow your belief in your 'humanness' to cover over completely your True nature. Simply remind yourself that you are the 'More' that you seek and that More is everything the Everything that cannot be explained by any logic applied to it.


Simply allow yourself to be creation, for that is what you are, as are we. Your choice of 'being' is yours to choose. We know you have chosen the way of Love and to know it as Creator created it. For if you had not, you would not hear us, for we could not reach you.


The free will of choosing your way is given all creation at its inception. It is the will of the Creator to offer all creation the same compliment. It cannot be otherwise as Creator and creation are One. If you do not call us, we cannot answer for it would be infringing (upon) your free will to do so. We hear all calls and answer all calls, know this and hone your listening through and with the Law of Love, for it is Love that opens your ears to our words. For they are out there scattered throughout eternity for all to gather them in and to allow them to settle into the form of our understanding of Truth, of Creators thought of Love and Light that informs all creation. We are one with you with Love and with Light.


Feeling unable to connect


Q: I am seemingly unable to reach 'anyone' to engage in conversation, no questions come to mind. I remain open to every moment to hear the soft small voice of Truth ring loud in my ears giving clarity and 'lighting all dark places' of confusion


A: For that is what sadness is, that is what emptiness is, that is what loneliness is, confusion. A mis-arrangement of Truth, a misunderstanding of Unity, that is all. Correction and re-arrangement is simplicity itself.


Be still and know you are One. Perfection is here with you and in you right NOW. All is well. Continue your seeking, continue to seek and we will aid in providing, for that is our 'job', our purpose and our joy. As it is yours.


Breathe deeply that breath of Truth that leaves no room for the air of confusion. Just let go and flow with your life of 'being creation' and we will fill in the rest, we will fill in the rest, we will (help) 'join your dots' for you. For you have asked and we will answer.


Q: I cannot put my finger on my discontent and connect, though I believe loneliness may be part of it. There is a loneliness element associated with it, yet there is hope and joy also.


A: It is a 'parting of the ways' (meaning our transition to 4th density) for you will feel more than simple separation from people as you know them. Your 'disconnect' as you mentioned, comes from this parting. It is as if you are changing schools in a sense. You are about to leave and can feel, already, that separation as each go on to their new and separate ways. Though all have come so far together, all will soon part, some still (will stay) together, others not. Your thought of new school is both exciting, yet also to being as yet unfamiliar, a little daunting, which brings in that air of mild anticipation for overall you know it is progression of a nature you desire, and have desired for a very long time now.


Let nature ease you into it, for it senses this more, this change too. It is literally 'in the air' if you will. At times you feel as though you go alone but this is not so. Many are travelling to be there, en route to this, your next 'school of learning' and they will be more in tune with your ways and your thinking. Yet there will be much to learn here and a more rapid growth and depth of knowledge will come to you. You are now in preparation for this, for we have much to teach you and all who are ready. You will come to know us better here and conversation will flow more smoothly as the density of Light will be much brighter, much clearer and open to all minds and to all voices. Eternity will feel much closer and great comfort will be known here, for true Unity is able to arise more easily within you joining the true Unity without.


Here we talk of your awakening Awareness of the natural state of Unity, where and when you will never feel alone again, for you will know your part in it and 'grow' into it through more advanced learning. A learning that holds/will hold much pleasure for all of you and that will flow more easily to you and for you as you give your love and gratitude in return for your progress. Know this is coming and that you are (all) close now, those now at this point of your progression. This the great procession through the gateways into finer density.


Yet you are still on this 3rd cusp where there are those in different stages of learning, some of which do not match yours, for the diversity is great here and this hampers progress in many as the inharmonious vibrations can easily upset your own, knocking them out of the alignment that you desire to cultivate in your soul/spirit. Yet you have chosen your direction and will not be swayed form it. So you will overcome these lower frequencies that seek to keep you here. Progress on soul level cannot be undone either with, or without, the veil of illusion. For all learning is 'set in the stone' of Eternity.


Those of your nature will find you here and those choosing to join you will know you, even without knowing (it) and they will find you, for it is so set that they do so and you will play your part for them and you will know your way together, the path paved with Love and illumined with the Light of the knowledge of BEING.


We are One with you


Spiritual 'numbness'


Q: Where is my Joy?


Feeling alone in a strange world


I 'miss' people, I miss sharing words, ideas, experiences. Those thoughts, that is, of Love, Universal, unconditional Love, no judgement, just simply and humbly sharing our experiences on our path of seeking the answer(s) to 'Life, the Universe and Everything', the Greater Mysteries of our infinite creation and Creator. Can I see beyond this 'need' for constant spiritual stimulation?


A: It is but a reflection of each being's desire to be whole again, at One with our Creator. It is but a symptom of the illusion of separation. If one can see it as it is, one can give the emotion it carries the space around it to be as it is, for it merely mirrors the reflection of your assured destiny, so that you may learn the skills required to reach it, 'Destiny's End'


Can you allow yourself that same space too? In which to sit back and simply observe it and your own reaction to it each time such moments arise?


Your (word) 'lonely', what does that mean to you?


Q: No longer having (spiritually oriented) friends to share with, no-one 'needing' me anymore (my children are adults) Losing the more unsavoury side of co-dependence? I question my own perception of the loneliness I feel a lot of the time and not just because of covid and lockdowns.


A: Yes, one will reach this point in a human life of individuality, where one finds oneself 'alone in a strange place'. Yet this too can occur when one is also surrounded by others, smothered even, by close family. For in truth it is but a state of mind. For you it is a lack of literal 3rd density stimulation offered by others, of mind meeting mind.


The situation you and your world have found themselves in (covid) has simply accentuated further, quite literally, the feeling of isolation as a seemingly separate individual, alone in a vast sea of change and confusion of fear of losing that which was a 'normality' of sorts. Even with its obvious inconsistencies and often far removed from the Original Thought (of our Creator), that of LOVE. Yet too, as yet not fully revealed, is the emergence of a new resilience and keenness to move together into collaboration and community spirit that such occurrences can foster.


Yet here, now, in this moment of your history, the transition to higher living (4th density) commands this need for change to allow the deeper blending of the collective Soul in heart and mind. The discomfort of this moment will pass, as all illusion does/will.


Open only to Love and as Love to pass over this bridge of confusion to greater peace and joy.


Thank You


 
 
 

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